
the truth about let them…let me!
You’ve always been the one who gives, supports, and shows up—until you stop. And suddenly? You’re the problem. But here’s the truth: they saw you the whole time. They just saw what they needed from you. When you stop abandoning yourself, everything shifts. Are you ready to reclaim your power? Let them misunderstand you. Let you choose yourself. Let’s do this work together.

From Self-Help to Self-Healed: The Breakthrough You’ve Been Waiting For
I spent a lifetime chasing self-help, fixing everything and everyone—until I realized I was the project all along. This is my raw truth about stepping out of endless self-improvement and into true transformation. No more running, no more fixing—just deep, soul-level healing. If you’re ready for the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for, this is where it begins.

Midlife Crisis vs. Midlife Becoming: The Reveal You’ve Been Waiting Forgh
Feeling stuck in a midlife crisis? What if it’s not a crisis, but a becoming? Instead of breaking down, this is your chance to break through. Learn how to navigate the ‘goop’ stage, embrace your Life DNA, and step into the transformation you’ve been waiting for. You don’t need a reinvention—this is your reveal.

Conversations with your soul
You’ve built an Instagram-worthy life, but something still feels off. Conversations with Your Soul combines deconstructed tarot, Life DNA, and AI-driven insights to help you uncover soul-level clarity and real transformation. No tarot experience required.

What If the Mirrors in Your Life Aren’t Just Showing You What Needs Healing—But What’s Meant for You?
Discover how the people who trigger us are mirrors reflecting our hidden truths. These moments, though challenging, offer profound opportunities for personal growth, self-awareness, and emotional alignment. Learn how to embrace the mirror effect and unlock the path to healing, balance, and authenticity in your journey

Who Would You Be Without “Fixing”others? A Journey of Boundaries, Freedom & Self-Discovery
"Fixing once felt like my purpose, my safety, my identity. But now, I see it was holding me back from my dream life—a life of freedom, creativity, and joy. Wintering broke me wide open, and in that breaking, I discovered the truth: I am enough. Without the fixer role, without walls, and without fear, I’ve stepped into a life of clarity, freedom, and alignment. I chose me."

Is It Possible to Know Everything About Someone (Including Yourself) and Still Not Truly Know Them?
Forgiveness isn’t a destination; it’s a process—a sacred act of self-love and self-respect that begins with you. When you forgive who you were, you’re not erasing the past; you’re honoring it as the foundation that brought you to this moment. You’re giving yourself permission to embrace the person you are becoming.
What I’ve come to realize is that forgiveness is not about excusing pain or mistakes but about reclaiming your power. It’s a boundary—a declaration that says, “I release what no longer serves me while redefining what I will allow moving forward.”

Wintering with Purpose: Embracing Joy and Letting Go of Control
The Winter Solstice is a sacred time to pause, reflect, and release what no longer serves us. Life isn’t a to-do list, and joy isn’t something you achieve—it’s found in the surrender of control and the present moment. This season invites you to uncover the sneaky ways control blocks your joy, reclaim your light, and embrace interdependence as a path to connection and growth. Explore how slowing down and wintering with purpose can transform your journey into one filled with clarity, freedom, and renewal.

How Tarot Aligns Your Mind, Body, and Soul for Lasting Change
Discover how Tarot, combined with Life DNA—a unique blend of astrology, life lessons, and intuitive guidance—aligns your mind, body, and soul. Learn how this transformative process provides a map and compass to navigate your life with clarity and purpose. Explore actionable insights and personalized tools for lasting change.

From Burnout to Breakthrough: Gratitude and Boundaries as Your Blueprint
From Burnout to Breakthrough: Gratitude and Boundaries as Your Blueprint"
Transform burnout into your breakthrough with gratitude as your guide and boundaries as your blueprint. Discover how daily gratitude and saying yes to what you truly desire can help you design a life full of purpose, passion, and ease.
Ready to rise like a phoenix? Learn more at www.soljoyco.com


Super Full Moon in Taurus: Alchemize Pain into Growth with Your Life DNA
Discover how the Super Full Moon in Taurus illuminates your Life DNA, guiding you to transform pain into powerful growth. Embrace the journey, uncover wisdom, and find joy by letting life’s lessons lead the way. Ready to learn more? Dive in at Sol Joy Tarot Co

Be Still and Know: A Journey of Inner Connection
Be still and know" invites us to pause, reconnect, and trust the wisdom within. Discover how stillness helps you align with your true self, and why trusting your own inner knowing is more powerful than any external advice. Learn how practices like art, journaling, and intuitive guidance can deepen your connection to purpose and joy. Embrace your path to transformation with Sol Joy Tarot Co. and uncover the clarity that’s already within you.

The Masks We Wear: Embracing Authenticity and Living Unfiltered
This Halloween + Scorpio season, go beyond veil and explore the masks we wear daily. Discover how removing these emotional masks brings us closer to our true selves, why it’s essential for personal growth, and how to start unmasking today for a life of authenticity and joy.

Full Moon in Aries: Release, Reset, and Manifest Your Dream Life
Harness the bold energy of the Full Moon in Aries to release what’s no longer serving you and focus on manifesting your dream life. Discover how to clear physical and emotional clutter, set intentions, and attract the life you desire with this powerful lunar event.

When Life Takes Control: Lessons in Surrender from Hurricane Milton
Hurricane Milton reminds us that we can’t control life’s storms, but we can control how we respond. Through deep-rooted anger and growing pains, I’ve learned that surrender is the ultimate release. It’s not easy—sometimes it's scary—but letting go creates space for joy and transformation. Journaling and tarot help me find clarity in chaos. Here’s how surrender changed everything.

Libra Solar Eclipse & New Moon: Heal, Transform, and Embrace New Beginnings
Embrace the powerful Libra Solar Eclipse and New Moon energy for healing and transformation. Illuminate hidden shadows, release old patterns, and step into new beginnings with clarity and balance. Discover how this cosmic event impacts you and learn more with my personalized Eclipse Season Tarot Reading. #Astrology #Healing

Welcome to SolJoy The Blog: My Journey to Discovering inner joy
Welcome to Sol Joy -The Blog based in Sarasota, FL but accessible worldwide. This is a space where transformation leads to joy, self-discovery becomes empowerment, and clarity illuminates the path ahead. This blog is all about unlocking your true self through tarot, astrology, journaling, and other healing tools. I’ll be sharing my personal journey of transformation—how traditional talk therapy only took me so far, and how going inward revealed the gifts in life’s hardest lessons.
Whether you're navigating your next chapter, seeking clarity with tarot, or just beginning your inner connection journey, this blog offers insights, tools, and resources to guide you toward living a life of purpose and joy.